Katie 17, 2012, 9:42 am july
We agree to you… i dunno. Its difficult. I simply know personally i couldnt just let the lady glare at me personally for no reason… like, sorry woman, be angry at him. I’ve done absolutely nothing to you. But thats simply anyone I will be.
Like i stated, i wouldnt walk out my method to attempt to speak with her, but if she sets the record right because of the gf, ideally she’s going to turn her focus through the LW being a problem to your guy being the problem, which will be the proceedings.
Katie 17, 2012, 9:50 am july
And in addition, exactly exactly what can you want to bet they talk all the time that he is feeding his new girlfriend the whole “crazy ex” routine to explain why? And was operating into one another really and truly just a coincidence?
Nadine 17, 2012, 9:52 am july
I’m able to realise why you’d believe that means, it isnt nice never to be liked, but We browse the page to be in regards to the LW relationship with ex-BF, maybe not the ex-BF present relationship. Thats simply a complicator. The LW can simply get a handle on her very own actions, and overlook the ex-BF calling and annoying that is being. New GF to his relationship is none of her company, and honestly, the 2 girls need not be buddies at all. It might you need to be an additional backlink to the man when it comes to LW, that is wanting to cut ties that are emotional.
Katie 17, 2012, 9:54 am july
Thats an excellent point for sure!
Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:01 am
Oh and god, we hate the crazy ex routine – I accustomed be buddies with this particular band of dudes whom accustomed have such lady-issues, and all sorts of the girls they dated would get crazy on it after two weeks and I’d get actually amazed, cos they seemed therefore normal if you ask me? Then we realised it ended up beingn’t the girls, its the people. And also the girls had been all people that are just normal, you understand, wished to determine if that they had a boyfriend or not…….
Katie 17, 2012, 10:04 am july
Yea. Its love, as soon as that occurs enough times- what’s the typical denominator? YOU MAY BE!!
I do feel harmful to this GF that is new. She deserves to possess a guy’s complete attention. And she deserves some guy who isnt hung through to their ex, calling her and telling her he nevertheless dreams intensely about her and material. Thats messed up! And she most likely hates the LW as the guy is telling her a couple of crap about her. Its simply all incorrect. The whole thing.
Nadine 17, 2012, 10:09 am july
I feel bad on her behalf too, but she has to consider by herself. Its difficult being the very first gf after a long relationship, but thats generally why a lot of people go into these with their eyes spacious. Oh and the man has to prevent dropping “But We have a girlllllllfriend! ” into conversation. We keep imagining him carrying it out the real method the crossdresser does it in minimal Britain, maybe you have seen that? “Oh, but I’m a layyyyydeee! ”
Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:25 am
Yeah that “but I have a girlfriend” line is such crap, the LW knows which he features a GF, he’s simply trying to find a effect each time he claims it. He wishes the LW to be like “well I don’t care I will still blow you” or “Dump that skank, 
and come back to me” if you have a GF,
Katie July 17, 2012, 10:27 am
Yea, its like whenever i was in senior high school and me and my boyfriend would separation any other week, in which he would “accidently” we would fight and get back together text me or something just so.
Lets_be_honest July 17, 2012, 2:45 pm
@katie, hahaha “just so we would fight and obtain right back together”
Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 10:05 am
I’ve said right here a great deal, if the guy whips out of the word “crazy” I operate one other method. I understand therefore men that are many utilize that word to hide because of their dickish behavior.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:56 am
We don’t understand why individuals would phone somebody crazy within the place that is first. I recently say we didn’t see eye to eye long-term and then leave it at that. The actual fact on it, makes me think you may be the one that likes to stir the muck that you put a “crazy” label.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:57 am
Additionally, you could be kinda crazy as well if you are willing to call someone crazy, wouldn’t that mean?
Rilooyah July 17, 2012, 4:44 pm
So real! As soon as the” that is“crazy away, Im operating one other means. I believe it had been stated above- whenever you attract the crazy, the denominator that is common constantly YOU, friend.
Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:21 am
The truth is, that it really is partially the LW’s fault, she understands that he could be in this relationship, and she’s knows that when this occurred to her she most likely will be upset about any of it too, and yet she will continue to answer this guys calls and even though he keeps stating that he could be dreaming about her, and all sorts of of this bull shit.
Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 10:26 am july
Yep! We completely agree. LW, just stop responding to. Don’t talk for this woman because your just likely to cause drama. You need to just understand he’s maybe maybe not your boyfriend and also that you know he has a girlfriend is making you a bad guy in this too though you still like his attention, the fact.
Katie 17, 2012, 10:35 am july
This is certainly a point that is great you dudes. I didnt think about it like that.
So LW, them happyness, leave them alone!! Like eljay (i love you, eljay) said, someone has to be the adult in this situation if you really do respect their relationship and wish. You have to do it if he is not willing to be.
Painted_lady July 17, 2012, 2:17 pm
Amen bestie – I accept you about talking towards the girlfriend. That knows just just what this guy has stated concerning the LW to justify their speaking so frequently, but as the relationship is none of these company, the fact the LW and also the girlfriend that is new met now i do believe enables the LW some freedom. That I had heard about and wanted to get along with (I’m going to assume that the LW wants that? ) and it went horribly, I might reach out and go, hey, I’m so sorry that went badly if I had been in a situation where a friend brought someone around. She does not fundamentally need certainly to state, “Hey, which means that your boyfriend was saying _____ in my experience and he’s the only calling, in which he said you had been fine with this specific, ” just “Hey, I’m therefore sorry that went defectively, I became underneath the impression you had been ok with this being buddies, but i recently discovered I’m maybe not fine with your being friends either, therefore it’s no problem anymore. ”
Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:37 am july
I’dn’t communicate with the gf about that. If We had been dating some body for 2 months the last thing I would personally desire is the ex of three years reaching down to me personally. And merely to share with you which you respect her relationship? I’d think you had been bullshitting me and playing mind games. Simply simply just Take Wendy’s advice and inform your ex partner you don’t would you like to hear them alone from him for a while, and then leave. Really they probably won’t work-out because you will be nevertheless when you look at the photo (which does not do great things for an innovative new relationship), but allow them work that out on their own.
Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 9:39 am
Oh in addition, if we had been this new girlfriend and my bf and I also went into their ex at a club I would personally additionally need that people leave instantly. It is therefore uncomfortable. Every person pretends they can be “mature” and stay buddies with exes and stay completely okay if your SO’s ex appears, but why? You don’t have actually become okay with being around your boyfriends ex-girlfriend of three years.
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:28 am july